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#BookReview ‘Three Days in June’ by Anne Tyler #contemporary #marriage

A slim novel, I read Three Days in June by Anne Tyler in one day. Its the story of Gail and Max, their marriage, divorce and life afterwards, told during the three days of their daughter’s wedding. It sounds like a simple story but there are hidden depths. Anne TylerNot a wasted word or phrase, this is a coming to terms with yourself as the years draw on. Gail Baines is not having a good day. Being told by her boss that she is being replaced, Gail drives home to find her ex Max on the doorstep holding a cat carrier. Their daughter Debbie is getting married tomorrow to Kenneth and tonight is the wedding rehearsal and dinner. Surrounded by memories, shared jokes, remembered disputes, and input from Debbie and Gail’s mother, the past cannot be ignored. Without you realising it, Tyler tells the story of this couple, both teachers, who have shared so much together but avoid talking about what tore them apart. Instead they talk about eggs, about the nameless cat that needs a home that Max is keen Gail adopts and Gail is adamant she won’t, about Debbie’s husband-to-be and his family, and interwoven throughout is the baggage of their marriage.
Just when the focus is one hundred per cent on Gail and Max – will Gail resign from her job, will Gail and Max drive each other nuts sharing the house, will they be nice to each other – Debbie arrives at Gail’s house from her pre-wedding beauty session and throws a curve ball. She’s just heard that Kenneth has cheated on her. Max is forgiving, Gail is furious. Max counsels caution and recommends giving Kenneth a chance to explain. Gail is terrified Debbie will accept his apology and marry him anyway. The subtext of Gail and Max’s reactions become clearer as the three days in June progress.
This is a story of marriage, love, sadness, mistakes and laughter, full of truisms of the kind Anne Tyler specialises in. ‘Sometimes when I find out what’s on other people’s minds I honestly wonder if we all live on totally separate planets.’ There is no complicated plot, just people being people; funny, awkward, messy, honest, tender, accepting. It’s a tiny gem.

Read my reviews of these other books by Anne Tyler:-
A SPOOL OF BLUE THREAD
CLOCK DANCE
FRENCH BRAID
LADDER OF YEARS
REDHEAD BY THE SIDE OF THE ROAD
VINEGAR GIRL

And read the #FirstPara of:-
DINNER AT THE HOMESICK RESTAURANT
BACK WHEN WE WERE GROWN UPS

If you like this, try:-
‘The Croatian Island Library’ by Eva Glyn
‘When All is Said’ by Anne Griffin
‘Natural Flights of the Human Mind’ by Clare Morrall

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COMING SOON… THE NEXT BOOK I REVIEW WILL BE:- John Boyne

#BookReview ‘Ladder of Years’ by Anne Tyler #contemporary #family

Ladder of Years is another fine character-led drama by Anne Tyler, one of my favourite authors. It is the story of Delia Grinstead who, in a moment of dissatisfaction with her life and relationships, goes for a walk on the beach and keeps on walking. Finding a niche in a small town, with hardly any money and possessions, Delia starts again. And when her family catch up with her and ask her why she left, she cannot find a way to explain. It is twenty-eight years since Ladder of Years was first published. It was chosen by Time magazine as one of the ten best books of 1995. Tyler had already been a Pulitzer Prize finalist in 1986 with The Accidental Tourist and won it in 1989 for Breathing Lessons. All her novels stand the test of time and can be read as if the action takes place today, so accurately is her finger on the portrayal of human emotion.
Adrift from her husband and three almost-adult children in Baltimore and not understanding why, Delia finally tips over the edge while on holiday. She finds herself in Bay Borough, the sort of small town where everyone knows everyone else’s business. She finds a job and a room to rent, buys a couple of secondhand work dresses and a nifty gadget to heat water in a cup so she can make an early morning cup of tea. Delia knows she should let her family know she is safe but is disinclined to do so, feeling she has been taken for granted. Inevitably, one of her sisters arrives on the doorstep. What follows is the story of a woman free for the first time, having married as a teenager and worked all that time as her doctor husband’s receptionist. Free from the expectations of others, she makes a circle of friends on her own terms.
This is a novel about middle-aged stasis and escape, about admitting the truth of one’s own life, choices and possibilities, and that there are no easy answers. Tyler’s characters are always so well-drawn and believable and her observations so wise and true, sometimes uncomfortably so. Here’s an example; ‘Didn’t it often happen, she thought, that aged parents die exactly at the moment when other people (your husband, your adolescent children) have stopped being thrilled to see you coming? But a parent is always thrilled, always dwells so lovingly on your face as you are speaking. One of life’s many ironies.’ Of course, Delia encounters other parent/child combinations in Bay Borough which challenge this theory.
Tyler’s novels deceive; seemingly about small domesticities and passage-of-life-events, they are really about the big, difficult questions we all face as we pass through different phases of life.
Excellent.

Read my reviews of these other books by Anne Tyler:-
A SPOOL OF BLUE THREAD
CLOCK DANCE
FRENCH BRAID
REDHEAD BY THE SIDE OF THE ROAD
THREE DAYS IN JUNE
VINEGAR GIRL

And read the #FirstPara of:-
DINNER AT THE HOMESICK RESTAURANT 
BACK WHEN WE WERE GROWN UPS

If you like this, try:-
‘Olive Kitteridge’ by Elizabeth Strout
‘Mothering Sunday’ by Graham Swift
‘The Stars are Fire’ by Anita Shreve

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#BookReview ‘The Long View’ by Elizabeth Jane Howard #historical #marriage

The Long View by Elizabeth Jane Howard is not so much a ‘what happens next’ novel as ‘what has happened in the past to lead to this situation’ story. It is a novel about choices and where they can lead. Howard tells the story, backwards from 1950 to 1926, of the marriage of Antonia and Conrad Fleming. As the story starts, the marriage seems doomed and you cannot help but wonder how these two people ever got married in the first place. In fact, once I finished it I was tempted to read it again from back to front. Elizabeth Jane HowardThe first paragraph is a masterful example of scene setting. It opens with a dinner party to celebrate the engagement of Julian Fleming to June, who has secretly spent the afternoon alone at the cinema. As Antonia considers the complicated marital affairs of her son – and her daughter, Deirdre, who is pregnant by a man who does not love her – I wondered how her own marriage must have shaped her children’s handling of relationships and how hers, in turn, was shaped by her parents. I found Conrad an almost totally unsympathetic character, indeed in the first part he is referred to simply as Mr Fleming. ‘One of his secret pleasures was the loading of social dice against himself. He did not seem for one moment to consider the efforts made by kind or sensitive people to even things up; or if such notions ever occurred to him, he would have observed them with detached amusement, and reloaded more dice.’
This is very much a novel of its time in which middle-class women had limited choices. As a young woman, Antonia lacks the strength to break out. She is timid, feeling she has proved unsatisfactory for both her mother and father. ‘She grew up, therefore, feeling, not precisely a failure so much as an unnecessary appendage.’ Her mother bemoans her lack of interests [Antonia does have interests, simply not those of her mother] and her father her lack of intellect [but without stimulus of career or education]. We see the transition from hopeful, eager young girl experiencing first love, to weary, middle age when the ‘trees ahead so horribly resembled the trees behind, and the undergrowth of their past caught and clung and tore at them as they moved on.’
This is Howard’s second novel. I am most familiar with her later ‘Cazalet Chronicles’ series and there are some key comparisons to be made in the writing style. Sentences in The Long View are longer, paragraphs longer, and the style not as simple and nuanced as the later books. Viewpoint also shifts within paragraphs, a technique she changed for the Cazalets. This is not to say this spoiled my enjoyment of The Long View, it is perhaps an observation for writers rather than readers, but it shows an interesting development in the author’s writing style. And I particularly enjoyed the descriptions of Antonia’s horse rides in Sussex, countryside in which the Cazalet’s house, Home Place, is set.

Read my reviews of ‘The Cazalet Chronicles’, also by Elizabeth Jane Howard:-
THE LIGHT YEARS #1CAZALET 
MARKING TIME #2CAZALET
CONFUSION  #3CAZALET
CASTING OFF #4CAZALET
ALL CHANGE #5CAZALET

If you like this, try:-
‘The Past’ by Tessa Hadley
‘Offshore’ by Penelope Fitzgerald
‘Mothering Sunday’ by Graham Swift

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